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    I had a chat with TR Jnr about porn, sex, girls, relationships etc on the way home from the gym.

    Like blood out of a stone, but he did say this is between you and me right, you won't tell mum right, cos you know how she will get.

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    #341

    another issue that has been rearing it's head...pre-teen girls drama for dramas sake, add in social media and you have a recipe for toxicity

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    @taniwharugby said in Parenting:

    I had a chat with TR Jnr about porn, sex, girls, relationships etc on the way home from the gym.

    Like blood out of a stone, but he did say this is between you and me right, you won't tell mum right, cos you know how she will get.

    Good on you for having the convo, hopefully he feels encouraged that he can talk to you should he have any questions or issues.

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    @NTA said in Parenting:

    @Catogrande he came in last night crying with relief that she still says she has feelings for him.

    He was using the word "love" a bit which ii found both hilarious and cute.

    Now we will see if she just felt pressured into doing it or is actually keen on him.

    Aaand Whoosh! I’m back in my own 13 year old body, filled with pathetic self-loathing and misery because I’ve been dumped by the girl of my unimaginative dreams. Wait. No. She still likes me. Now I’m even sadder.

    The poor little bugger has my sympathy mate, as do you having to cope with it.

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    @Catogrande said in Parenting:

    @NTA said in Parenting:

    @Catogrande he came in last night crying with relief that she still says she has feelings for him.

    He was using the word "love" a bit which ii found both hilarious and cute.

    Now we will see if she just felt pressured into doing it or is actually keen on him.

    Aaand Whoosh! I’m back in my own 13 year old body, filled with pathetic self-loathing and misery because I’ve been dumped by the girl of my unimaginative dreams. Wait. No. She still likes me. Now I’m even sadder.

    The poor little bugger has my sympathy mate, as do you having to cope with it.

    it was so much easier getting zero play from the ladies in high school

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  • SnowyS Offline
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    And yet here we all are, married, partners, shagging. It works out in the end.

    I would hate to be a teen again though.

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    @mariner4life said in Parenting:

    @Catogrande said in Parenting:

    @NTA said in Parenting:

    @Catogrande he came in last night crying with relief that she still says she has feelings for him.

    He was using the word "love" a bit which ii found both hilarious and cute.

    Now we will see if she just felt pressured into doing it or is actually keen on him.

    Aaand Whoosh! I’m back in my own 13 year old body, filled with pathetic self-loathing and misery because I’ve been dumped by the girl of my unimaginative dreams. Wait. No. She still likes me. Now I’m even sadder.

    The poor little bugger has my sympathy mate, as do you having to cope with it.

    it was so much easier getting zero play from the ladies in high school

    I dream of letting CF Jnr in on all the secrets I've learned over the years but been unable to go back in time to use. Just like I was with my dad (basically told me to play the field and not to give up my wicket too cheap) I expect he won't listen to me

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  • mariner4lifeM Online
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    considering my dad was a 20 year old who knocked up his 17 year old GF and married her, i don't reckon he had fuck all to tell me

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  • canefanC Offline
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    @mariner4life said in Parenting:

    considering my dad was a 20 year old who knocked up his 17 year old GF and married her, i don't reckon he had fuck all to tell me

    Except he knew where the "try line" was

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    @Snowy said in Parenting:

    And yet here we all are, married, partners, shagging. It works out in the end.

    Almost...Cough cough @NTA cough...

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  • antipodeanA Online
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    @Snowy said in Parenting:

    I would hate to be a teen again though.

    So would I. Such an awkward age.

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  • NTAN Offline
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    I'd like to be a teen again, but with the knowledge I have now.

    Also: fuck off @Virgil

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  • taniwharugbyT Offline
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    replied to NTA on last edited by
    #352

    @NTA hell yeah, I'd be able to make more of my limited sporting ability too, which would assist my off-field pursuits as well!

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    @NTA said in Parenting:

    I'd like to be a teen again, but with the knowledge I have now.

    Also: fuck off @Virgil

    That’s the trilogy, I’m spent..

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  • canefanC Offline
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    @NTA said in Parenting:

    I'd like to be a teen again, but with the knowledge I have now.

    Also: fuck off @Virgil

    You can tell your son that girls love confidence in a guy, and that if he acts like he doesn't care whether she is impressed with him or not (in a good way) that they love that shit. But only one of you will believe it

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  • NTAN Offline
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    @Virgil said in Parenting:

    @NTA said in Parenting:

    I'd like to be a teen again, but with the knowledge I have now.

    Also: fuck off @Virgil

    That’s the trilogy, I’m spent..

    Not much of a trilogy. The same shit over and over in a childish manner 🙂 Might as well watch Star Wars 😎

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  • M Offline
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    @NTA Don’t we all wish we could be a teenager again mind you got none then getting even less now being married with two kids one that’s 13 months 😂

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    @mikey07 said in Parenting:

    @NTA Don’t we all wish we could be a teenager again mind you got none then getting even less now being married with two kids one that’s 13 months 😂

    Exactly - its about the same 😉

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  • canefanC Offline
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    replied to NTA on last edited by
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    @NTA said in Parenting:

    @mikey07 said in Parenting:

    @NTA Don’t we all wish we could be a teenager again mind you got none then getting even less now being married with two kids one that’s 13 months 😂

    Exactly - its about the same 😉

    Catch and release is the only way

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  • chimoausC Offline
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    @mikey07 said in Parenting:

    @NTA Don’t we all wish we could be a teenager again mind you got none then getting even less now being married with two kids one that’s 13 months 😂

    My first girlfriend set me up to fail, it was pretty much every day (except that time in the month) for a year when I was 16. When I tried that with subsequent girlfriends I learnt very quickly that she was an anomaly, and I would never experience that again.

    But there was a catch, she had such a drive one night I ignored her and got stoned with my mates, she screwed some random guy instead.

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