Happiness Scale

Catogrande

@mn5 Yeah. I don't give up easy.

She's a fantastic woman, but man she can bring me down. I don't know.

I am always reluctant to offer marital advice to anyone as you can never know all the intricacies: however I will say this. Never make a life changing decision through a knee-jerk reaction.

Hope it all improves for you both mate.

Bones

@majorrage said in Happiness Scale:

@snowy Mate, that's no good. Hope it sorts itself out. Have you told her about your fernie nominations, may help her realise what's she's got?

Sorry, crap jokes probably don't help right now, but it's all I've got.

Do we know it's not that she got more noms?

Snowy

@catogrande said in Happiness Scale:

@snowy said in Happiness Scale:

@mn5 Yeah. I don't give up easy.

She's a fantastic woman, but man she can bring me down. I don't know.

I am always reluctant to offer marital advice to anyone as you can never know all the intricacies: however I will say this. Never make a life changing decision through a knee-jerk reaction.

Hope it all improves for you both mate.

Sage advice. Thankyou.

canefan

@snowy said in Happiness Scale:

@catogrande said in Happiness Scale:

@snowy said in Happiness Scale:

@mn5 Yeah. I don't give up easy.

She's a fantastic woman, but man she can bring me down. I don't know.

I am always reluctant to offer marital advice to anyone as you can never know all the intricacies: however I will say this. Never make a life changing decision through a knee-jerk reaction.

Hope it all improves for you both mate.

Sage advice. Thankyou.

Take care of yourself mate.

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@bones had you down as a "Greggs" sort of man. Fair play.

Bones

@r-l spoons is never open early enough

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@bones what a day out we could have!

Bones

@r-l said in Happiness Scale:

@bones what a day out we could have!

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@snowy Sorry to hear this.

No jokes or advice. Chin up.

Kiwiwomble

@Snowy my go too is normally some sort of joke but I got nothing that wouldn’t trivialise what you’re going through

All I can say is I’ve been there, maybe not exactly where you are but somewhere similar...and the fact you still call her a wonderful woman makes me think there are still good times ahead, patience and then talk it though

Good luck

Paekakboyz

@Snowy the joy and the curse of knowing each other so well, when you want to hurt the other you know the ways Sorry to hear things are shit at the moment. Try and enjoy the hotel room and take care. A beverage or two and some shit talking on the fern isn't quite a 100% panacea but you know what they say... 60% of the time, it works every time!!

canefan

@paekakboyz said in Happiness Scale:

@Snowy the joy and the curse of knowing each other so well, when you want to hurt the other you know the ways Sorry to hear things are shit at the moment. Try and enjoy the hotel room and take care. A beverage or two and some shit talking on the fern isn't quite a 100% panacea but you know what they say... 60% of the time, it works every time!!

It's the reassurance that comes with knowing that out in cyberspace there is a gang of hot Polish chicks who have got your back

dogmeat

@snowy Just read you are having a tough time. Hope a new day heralds a new beginning and better times for you both.

Jeez that sounds like a hallmark greeting card. If anyone remembers greeting cards.

Anyways genuinely hope it all turns around for you quickly

JC

@snowy said in Happiness Scale:

I'm on zero today. Wife well offside with me, haven't seen the dog (wife took my wee girl with her). The one thing that cheers me up, the dog, and she knows it. I am in the office because I don't want to be around wife.

None of this will end well. 18 years we have been married, just a few days ago we had our anniversary. 25 years together in total. Will go to an hotel on my own tonight.

Life sucks. There just isn't a point to it.

That's a bit shit buddy. It will get better though, if you want it to. 25 years is a long time, you're bound to have the odd drama in that time but the good thing is that's 25 years to learn what you like about each other too. I'm sure that will carry you both through.

Flowers are good.