Alternative needed from the absolute crap of stuff.co.nz
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<p>It just hasn't really sunk in yet. Doesn't feel real. I guess the next time I tune into 3 news and there is no Hilary it will really hit home. That won't be for a while though, as it's been years since I last watched the 6 o'clock news.</p>
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<p><a data-ipb='nomediaparse' href='http://www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/80482029/hilary-barrys-final-tv3-broadcast-its-time-to-say-goodbye'>http://www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/80482029/hilary-barrys-final-tv3-broadcast-its-time-to-say-goodbye</a></p>
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<p>I promised myself I wouldn't cry, [sniff , sob] damn you stuff !</p> -
<p>well it is HUGE news....</p>
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<p>Hows everyone else coping? Its almost been a day.</p>
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<p>I spent most of last night on the couch remembering the good times, there were tears and laughter. </p>
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<p>I'll be stronger for this I think, I'm in a good place now.</p>
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<p>Shock......disbelief......anger.......frustration.....I spent all morning banging my fist into the table asking why.....why Hilary, WHY !?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!</p>
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<p>Those 23 years were amongst the best of my life and to have everything taken away just like that......it just hasn't fucken sunk in man.....</p> -
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<p>Shock......disbelief......anger.......frustration.....I spent all morning banging my fist into the table asking why.....why Hilary, WHY !?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!</p>
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<p>Those 23 years were amongst the best of my life and to have everything taken away just like that......it just hasn't fucken sunk in man.....</p>
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<p>I hear you, it doesn't seem quite real and I'm dreading 6pm on monday rolling around. </p>
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<p>I think we just have to be strong, the first few days are always the hardest. Obviously I won't be watching any US election coverage, just hearing the the name Hillary just triggers more waves of emotion. </p> -
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<p>I hear you, it doesn't seem quite real and I'm dreading 6pm on monday rolling around. </p>
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<p>I think we just have to be strong, the first few days are always the hardest. Obviously I won't be watching any US election coverage, just hearing the the name Hillary just triggers more waves of emotion. </p>
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<p>JC, Jonah, David Bowie and Prince dying was nothing.</p>
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<p>It's times like these you realize what real grief actually is. I'm so thankful I have you guys to help me through.</p> -
<p>feel bad saying this, but I think I might be over it all, seems a bit of overkill TBH</p>
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feel bad saying this, but I think I might be over it all, seems a bit of overkill TBH</p></blockquote>
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I think you're just in a state of denial to be honest . You need to grieve properly for the ending of the relationship , I find staring at a montage of photos of her with nothing compares to u plays in a loop to be very cathartic . <br>
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I've managed to cope quite well<br><br>
Course I am geological epochs older than most of you so I remember Angela d'Aubney being sacked. <br><br>
And she was a newsreader who actually got her norks out on national TV<br><br>
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feel bad saying this, but I think I might be over it all, seems a bit of overkill TBH</p></blockquote>
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I've managed to cope quite well<br><br>
Course I am geological epochs older than most of you so I remember Angela d'Aubney being sacked. <br><br>
And she was a newsreader who actually got her norks out on national TV<br><br>
and then like actually died of cancer</p></blockquote>
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<p>I've managed to cope quite well<br><br>
Course I am geological epochs older than most of you so I remember Angela d'Aubney being sacked.<br><br>
And she was a newsreader who actually <strong>got her norks out on national TV</strong><br><br>
and then like actually died of cancer</p>
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<p>D'Audnorks <a data-ipb='nomediaparse' href='http://www.nzonscreen.com/title/loose-enz---the-venus-touch-1982'>http://www.nzonscreen.com/title/loose-enz---the-venus-touch-1982</a></p> -
<p><a data-ipb='nomediaparse' href='http://thespinoff.co.nz/tv/29-05-2016/samantha-hayes-has-proven-shes-no-lightweight-and-deserves-this-chance-to-succeed-the-great-hilary-barry/'>http://thespinoff.co.nz/tv/29-05-2016/samantha-hayes-has-proven-shes-no-lightweight-and-deserves-this-chance-to-succeed-the-great-hilary-barry/</a></p>
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<p>This transitional piece is perhaps the best I've read. Start by comparing the headline with the URL - even the guy in IT is getting his little tribute in. :)</p>
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<p>I've watched a bit of Newshub over the past few weeks and - sexist and ageist though it may be - I'd say Mark Weldon was on the right track with his recruitment of reporters. He could get a job running an airline!</p> -
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<p>D'Audnorks <a data-ipb='nomediaparse' href='http://www.nzonscreen.com/title/loose-enz---the-venus-touch-1982'>http://www.nzonscreen.com/title/loose-enz---the-venus-touch-1982</a></p>
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<p>I've never really gone for chicks with Jimi Hendrix hairdos.</p> -
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<p>feel bad saying this, but I think I might be over it all, seems a bit of overkill TBH</p>
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<p>Far out, talk about your internet tough guy.</p> -
These internet warriors that jump on their keyboards and say things like "I don't know what the big deal is", "she was just a newsreader" and "it's not like she's dead FFS", all the while fighting back the tears, are the people that will need the most support in the long run. They're not allowing themselves to grieve.<br><br>
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<p>or making himself aware of these rather complex money laundering trusts where they are apparently routed through several trusts in multiple countries, and linked to an ex-leader of another country, holed up apparently safe from extradition in the UK, all stuff he really should be aware of and on top of well before these Panama papers...slacker! </p>
